Thanks everyone for the great advice! I had a bad night last night and backslid and read your message Theoden and you nailed it for me. I did follow my H around last night and will try not to do that in future. I am definitely impatient and will try not to be. It sounds like Divorce Remedy will be a good read for me and am looking forward to that coming in the mail in a few days.
My H came in last night pretty late, almost 8, after being with the OW, my daughter was sad about it, and I tried not to say anything, but did. I am going to print your last post, Theoden, and read it daily, before H gets home so no matter what happens, I will try to stick to your advice. I do have a question. H will not stop emailing the OW in front of me, says he can email who he wants (although he knows it is painful for me), and he emails her each evening. Since he refuses to stop the behavior when I am there, should I then just walk out of the room without comment at that point or what do you recommend?
I have been trying to GAL: been exercising 5-6 days a week, lost 25 pounds so far (still would like to lose about 10 more though), I painted today, am going to try out for a part in a community play in 2 weeks which would be extremely time consuming (if I don't get it I plan to just volunteer to be a crew member which will still eat up a bunch of time)...will start therapy Thursday and assume that will be weekly too. So that is the one area I think I am doing pretty good, and I live in a really small town so that is about it in the way of things to do!!!
