question about text messaging

[phbear316]

Hi

Thanks for all you imput, i have heard in NJ, that adultry get you no where, but abandonment of affection if you can prove it, is grounds for divorce. I have heard this. I have personally not spoken to a lawyer yet. I would prefer mediation, well actually i would prefer my marriage being saved.

I was just looking to have some proof, versus my word. I just feel my h will try to lie and say he did not have an affair, but he has been very open in telling me when he will be staying out overnight with her. He has done this two times now, once i have a hotel receipt for for a family friends wedding. And this past weekend he left me a note telling me not to wait up that he would not be home.

I know it most likely will make no difference if and when we get to that point (again don't want to) but i just want h to see, you did not pull the wool over my eyes, i have all this on you. Kinda like look you have nothing on me except loving you thru the hell you are putting me thru right now. Sorry rambling.

Thanks again for info, i will check back later on

phbear