Living together as semi-polite strangers

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When my kids aren't around I never have the TV on...I like the quiet or like listening to music. The problem I've had is that H (who isn't much of TV watcher either) complains that I keep it quiet so I can listen to whatever it is he's doing, whether it be taking a bath or studying or whatever. I think he's more concerned because if there is noise, he can call MOW and I won't hear that he's on the phone!

Try inviting H out for a drink or dinner. No R talk, just a nice night out to have some fun...if you can get him to go! I told me H that we still need to live our lives and try to have some fun within all of this mess....he agrees and we are trying to do things together a few times a week! Most of the time it works out great...not always...depends on me and my DBing most of the time...sometimes though it's not so good (but that's usually due to H's depression).



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