One More Night

[SueS]

And this surprises you?!

This does not surprise me at all. I mean, there has to be some level of dishonesty going on even at the start to make the other person believe that their life is so horrible that they need to be saved from their current M. I think my H thinks he's saving OW from a terrible M and existence with her H.

In my case with the phone call, I think H lied to OW. Just another way for H to get OW to see that the M is a bad place for him too and to color me as a royal b*tch to her.

OW's H knew something wasn't right. He told OW that he didn't understand why I'd be upset if - 1) there wasn't anything going on between she and my H AND 2) All H had to do was let me listen to the message and I'd know it was him (OW's H) calling and not OW.

Lies, lies, lies.....

SueS