My post painted a pretty bleak picture, and though it's accurate, I should also mention that despite the fact that there's no affection, etc, there's no tension either.
And also on the bright side (I guess), W feels sad that things have gotten this far too.
Just hafta go with the flow and hope things start looking up.
Sounds to me like you're having a few ups and downs yourself. I guess you just hafta hang in there and hope to become one of the couples of which my C spoke.