Tonight is going to be really, really, really, really hard if he goes bowling. You just can't undo all the good you've done.
I really admire how well you are handling all of this and I'm just writing to send you strength not to call/ask, if/when he comes home. It has to be getting more clear to him every day, as you are quietly showing him, that the source of his unhappiness isn't his home and family.
You've been very clear about your feelings and your wish for him to find peace. This is exactly what I did. Now just realize that he heard you.
