I did apologise, profusely and sincerely. Maybe you are right though that even though he said he would "forget it" maybe it will take a while. It was an interesting experience because I denied that I had the gyn problem for about 6 weeks. Can't remember ever denying something so completely. When I finally faced it and did some internet homework and put that together with the way he had been acting I thought I knew what was going on. To my credit when I talked to him about what I thought, I was very calm, loving and was steeled for bad news. As you may recall I am a crier--I cry (and laugh, I might add) easily. In this case I didn't start crying until he vowed that he was faithful because I couldn't see how that could be possible. I'm probably saying too much but you all are the only people I have to talk to about this stuff but without getting graphic, if you saw this and the description on the internet you would have probably thought the same thing.
Kent, you dearheart, you do have such a calming influence. I should have come back here before I talked to my H but I thought I knew what was going on. Proof once again that a little knowledge can be a dangerous thing.
I'm trying to address the weight thing. I don't like it either and it isn't healthy. I think I've found something that might help...if not maybe I'll do an Al Roker !
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