I have been warm with H and the warmer I am in daily interactions the better/happier things are in general. Doesn't equate to sex. The hottest sex we had was while dating and yes, he was very warm at that time. It was never as often or creative as I would like but at least it was genuine. All I'm saying is that how we are interacting now inspires duty/commitment not love or sex. Being warm won't make him want me but it might make me want him enough to try.......