Originally Posted By: hairdog
Oh, and are you harboring any expectations that him seeing you with other men will cause him to pursue? Just wondering.


Sorry, I didn't address this. No. I'm not interested in being treated rudely anymore. I truly have no more desire for him. This is why I can't understand y'all who still want someone for YEARS who had been so cold and mean to you.

If I started dating someone else, I really don't know what effect that might or might not have on him. He might or might not be jealous, but he would likely hide it if he were. You'd think I'd know after all these years, but plenty about him continues to surprise me.

BF is a good guy. He cares for me. He would do most anything for me. I'm tired of trying to break through the hard shell. We are friends but can never be lovers.