I think that when you treat yourself with respect its sorta two fold. It wakes them up a bit and also makes you feel empowered and not letting them have so much control over our lives.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
