Thanks, ladies. I wasn't thinking about flimsy flats; I just meant non-high-heel, non-platform, non-wedgie shoes.

I have some really expensive walking shoes, MBT's, that might just be perfect.
http://www.swissmasaius.com/Default.aspx?lang=en-US

Hd, I don't plan on having The Talk. If and when I decide I want to "date" someone, I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. Serious discussions between us deteriorate quickly into sarcasm (on his part) and tears (on my part). I just don't want to Go There. Does that make me a wussy, hairdog? Or just smart? Your opinion matters to me.

BTW, today it is officially one year since we ML.