Cag;

My H has OW but he says that's not why he is doing this. He says he feel out of love with me 10years ago, then it was 7, then it was 5. The fact is he said it was about us not the other woman.
Yes, that hurts even worse. I'm doing with the others on the board tell me and trying not to let it get to me. Trying to realize that it's crap he is telling me. Hard, extremely!!! This is by far the worst hurt, the hardest hurdle, the worst of everything thus far in my life. It has been a year since I found out about OW and 7 months since the bomb.

I hope and pray I get where a lot of these posters are.
Take care of yourself.

I am so thankful for this board.


((((Treese))))

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity