I'll get on and post more later, but one thing I noticed right away is you said that you need the evidence if you ever retain a lawyer. Check your states laws on divorce. I live in a "no-fault" state. Infidelity means almost nothing here....or so it seems. I saw a lawyer a few weeks ago and other than possibly using it for a few minor details regarding debt, it's not an issue here. Unfortunately, a WAS can do what they want and their being unfaithful has no affect on the court decisions. It's a non-issue. Sad, but true.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
