In this new journey I have been sent upon, I have had to acknowledge some anger issues that have been a key part of my contribution to the demise to my M. This anger is attributable to the severe depression that I have been contending with for many years now. But I am working on laying those aside. I know it is okay to get angry some times, but we are not to let our anger get the better of us. "Get angry and sin no more."
And revenge is not ours -- it is the Lord's. But still, as they say, the best "revenge" for us LBS's is one that is within God's plans anyway, and that is to lead a good life despite our WAS's ill wishes.