I've just read the last couple of notes, so forgive me if this is old territory. The WAH believes he knows you and that you'll never change - those beliefs give him confidence that he can walk away and you'll "stay put". Challenging those beliefs, even with something as simple as not spending the night, can stir things up. We don't know why he asked, but we do know that he did ask - curiosity is a powerful ally.
As for protecting your heart, it's not a game. Treat your story with the proper amount of respect - we don't owe our story to just anyone, but to those who demonstrate that they will treat it with dignity. Hopefully H will get it someday soon and treat you with more respect, in the mean time it's helpful for him to see you treating yourself with calm, confident respect!
Love well!
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