question about text messaging

[phbear316]

Michael Mc C

Thanks

I know he has told me he is having an affair, I have started to gather information for myself. I have collected hotel bill that he has left in suitcases, etc.

I know it will solve nothing, but it was just for fact finding, and for information. I wanted to have it for my when i needed it to go to a lawyer.

I am not at that point right now to go to a lawyer, I still believe in us and that we can save our marriage.

I guess i wanted to have the information to show H that i am not as stupid as he thinks.

I snoop to find out information, like i found out that he was going to Florida for christmas, he told me less than 18 hours before his flight, with tears and such. It how can i say was easier for me to handle him telling me he was going because i had known about the trip since early November. He booked the trip in late October, I found out, the second week of Nov, by reading his emails, he hid it in a folder marked workout routines.

I know snooping only causes hurt for me, and i rarely do it, i do it more to protect myself. So it is not very often.

Thanks i appreciate your advice
phbear