MLC's come home-part 2

[cagzmom]

I really need some encouragement to STAND and move on. Something my son said has really hit home with me today...it hurts (probably because I am pretty sure he is living with her most of the time...)

He said.... Why would he ever come home? He has it made...he has them (the kids) and he is free of me and marriage -and he has her. Sounds pretty good to me.

I really need to move on. Yes GAL...but really just not even care anymore. When am i just not going to care...like "Oh he lives with her - big deal." WHEN WONT it matter that he has chosen another?

So often when I read these boards I feel like my H is different. YES MLC same script..but the OW part. She didn't come in until he left....so he DID leave ME NOT FOR SOMEONE he LEFT ME. She has become a sidenote. NOT BECAUSE of her that he is gone. So many of you it was the MLC and the ow. Me it was the MLC ----- then she came in...

He doesn't love me...it is over.