Hi Indriel

No H's name is on the primary account. We are on the family plan so H's phone is first then mine.

No that is the problem i cannot get the phone away from H. He sleeps with it, takes it into the bathroom with him even while he is taking a shower, so i have no access to it. I have been told that under verizion you can get a list of text messages not the whole message but date and times.

Thanks for the info
phbear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce