Actually FLTC, our house was paid for so I'm sitting pretty! W has all the debt now, oh well, she chose it. Am I dying inside? Not today, I brought a wonderful joyful time to my family and I'm letting that joy rule. I can't bring back what was but I can make the most of what is and what can be. Yup, at times it hurts, but not last night. Tonight, we are all going to a high school open house, the school D13 wants to go to. W seems to be much more open to D going where she wants now. As I told her, if there is nothing wrong with this school than I will support D in going there. Btw, when I told my co-workers of our plans for last night and this evening I got these replies "You two are just plain crazy people!" and "why did you guys bother to separate, you spend more time together now than before". Ahh, it's a weird world, isn't it! But, today is pure joy, I will enjoy!