Atlas, Very sorry to hear about OM. I would be curious to know the % of WASs who have something going on the side. I think it was Tostada who said, you don't leave a relationship (for no apparent reason) if you do not have somebody (or somebody waiting). In a strange way, I wish I knew for sure what my WAW was up to. It would make my decision much easier. I would probably feel lousy for a long time but the decision itself for me would be cut and dried, like yours seems to be. I know there are people who would try to go on in spite of OM, I am not one of them. There is no way the trust would come back. I commend you for standing up for yourself. The world is full of good people and you deserve to be with them. Keep your chin up.