I too was the one who always stated I would never put up with it - but then I hung on for 16 mos....
About hating the OW more - I was very understanding on how it occurred I blamed both her and H and my friends could not understand how I could not confront her or kick her A$$ - but then I took the high road at all times...
But now I do place more blame on her - she kept trying to restart things once he told her he was done. Even once he moved back home in July she called and started the communication again - so much for her letting him go. This was after her other boyfriend went back to his ex-wife. Yes, my H may kept talking to her to but she always initiated... She actually had the gall to tell my H that I was being selfish b/c I would not let him go and let him be truly happy with her... she sure is messed up!!!
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
