I agree with Rob - as long as there is any sign of doubt you still have a chance. My H was adament about D yet he would not go file - he wanted to do that together WTH??? They are not 100% sure or they would just up and file and start the process. My H says he was never 100% gone just tried to act like it and if I would have given up on him we would be done vs. where we are at today. I doubt your W will be able to explain her own reasoning b/c she doesn't truly get herself either...they are in their own world of pain - something I would not wish on my own worst enemy.... Yes they chose this path to some extent but I do no believe they can see the way out or they think they have messed things up so bad it would be easier to just start over without their OP or their spouse....
Just my .02
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
