GKD,

To this day, I remain close to my ex-wife. It is because we have two sons. She is with someone else, but the closeness is good for our sons. I am not waiting for anything and I am open to meeting someone new for me. I just live my life (a pretty quiet one) and am very happy on my own.

Since you brought up waiting (which you must be doing to have phrased it as you did). Here is a book idea for you.

Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting: The Astonidshing Power Of Feelings by Lynn Grabhorn.

Live your life. Don't wait for the life you think you want.

IMP