LFL, thank you for putting into words what I've been thinking about my own sitch. Something to think about when I finally get us into counseling.
Glad I could help Storm. I guess one of the key factors in getting this ball rolling was finally realizing in MYSELF that the "best friends" scenario was truly not going to work. I fought with that in my mind for a loooonnngggg time. I WON'T live in a M like that anymore. It's almost as if our spouses can sense when we are BS-ing. So know yourself first I guess.
