you say you are confused about her not willing to discuss the therapist for the kids. I guess I missed where you had the discussion about the therapist...sounds like she walked in and you were already on the phone with one, no discussion at all, just here she is, wanna meet her?

mark, here's a different way to look at it. maybe she is mad that you didn't talk to her about it first? I would think looking for an ic for the kids would be something you would do together, you know? seems to me you took the reins without talking to her about it. even if she didn't want to be part of the process and thinks therapy for them is a waste of time, I think it would have been a good thing to have given her that chance to say no first.

I guess what I would do is sit down and have a talk with her about that. about the woman you found...no accusations, just wanting to do the best thing for the kids. if you are going to meet with this ic in person before the boys do, invite her along.

just a thought.




Last edited by SallyM; 01/08/08 01:24 PM.
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