You know... I hate to say it... if some guy were honest enough with me to say that, and really do that... he may very well and truly catch my interest. Guys tend to coddle the woman they are with, and tell them sweet little lies... which is cool, because at least I know I am being lied to, and I am smart enough to get it... and it makes parting a bit easier, because at least he is doing the gentlemanly thing for me in trying to ease the blow (as if there is a blow to be eased)...
Hmmmm...your bunny is strong and you are vibing lioness so you are contemplating a game of Rogue Reformation. Well, I do think that if anyone could do it, it would be you. If you really want a challenge, IMO, the toughest rogue to reform would be the Self-Referential Sweet-Talker. That kind of guy is as smooth as a billiard ball, no footholds at all.
Anyways, I was thinking about a topic you brought up previously which was roughly - What is the older (yet still completely hot) single woman looking for in a relationship? Now, according to my reading and general common sense, I would say that there are a few factors that drive females more towards commitment than males:
1) Higher levels of the "in love" chemical oxytocin post-sex.
2) The biological drive towards nesting in order to have/raise children.
3) Societal pressures along the lines of "Don't be a sl*t." double-standards.
There are other factors that drive towards commitment such as a romantic outlook or desire for continued companionship but I would say that these are equally shared by both sexes.
So, we are both women who are self-aware about "in love" chemicals and therefore able to "handle" them and we don't want more children. I don't know about you but now that I've processed the little hissy fit that Cobra inspired, I don't give a fig about #3 either. Even my semi-grown children just find it amusing that I appear to have become a serial dater so I face very little societal censure. So where does that leave us? I'm down with your Rogue Reformation plan but I think I've got one that's more foolproof. I call it my Rogue Creation plan. Here is the rough outline:
1) Find man who vibes "nice guy" rather than Wolf but is attractive for other reasons. Example: If I met pre-BB, single version of Chrome- Intelligent, interesting job and I saw him in athletic pants (LOL).
2) Let him play me bunny until he feels secure.
3) Play him monkey until he turns Wolf.
4) Play him cow.
5) Gracefully fall out of the relationship in my zoo keeper uniform.
The advantages of this plan are that during Step 2 I get to enjoy being chased by an attractive man. During Step 3 I get all sorts of fresh virgin wolf action. During Step 4 I maintain my self-validation/reputation for being a nice person by baking pies and such. In conclusion at Step 5 the relationship ends with good karma all around and I have rendered the world a better place sexually by rendering one male more wolfish. Of course, if I am smart I will overlap Step 4 with one guy with Step 1 for the next guy so as not to go too long without charming affectionate male companionship and/or hot sexual action.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
