Hi Mark, There you go again, looking for logic and reason from a crazy person! I know your wife has told you time and again that she's through, that she's outta there - but she's still at home isn't she? As my therapist once told me: Someone who is 100% sure they are moving on and there is no hope - will pull the trigger and move out.

All I can say is, I heard all of that too - but somewhere deep down, some part of my wife was still clinging to the possibility that things would work out between us. Now, I fully realize that this was more a 'cover your a$$' deal than having real hope - but you know what? It doesn't matter! As long as there's that tiny crack in the armor, you have the chance to worm your way in there and make it wider. In the meantime, disregard half of what she does and everything she says, and stick to the program.

BTW, I'm not a Buckeye fan either - went to Purdue. The wailing and gnashing of teeth today is going to be pretty entertaining. ;\)

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22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
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