So I didn't pursue this any further. Tomorrow morning, I will ask her, "What was all that about last night? Didn't you get the email from your dad?"
I think you need to do this.
I read Rob's earlier post. It seems that not discussing the relationship is important in the LRT and in the early stages of the affair to help you detach and not put pressure on WAS. In your case, and perhaps mine, not discussing the relationship may be harmful. It's almost like we are being seen as aloof or in denial. It confirms their image us of as not wanting to deal with the lack of communication in the marriage.
--Theoden
This morning, I didn't bring the subject up. I sensed some lingering anger from her (still fuzzy about that one). When the time is right (when we are alone), I will ask her about it.
I am genuinely confused about why she would be so dismissive of my discussion with a therapist for the kids. Equally confused if she were correct and it was, in fact, my girlfriend...
