mark, is this an IC therapist for you, or one you hope will be a mc/family therapist?
I am looking for an IC for the boys. I am carefully screening therapists, looking for one that is "marriage-focused."
Originally Posted By: SallyM
did you get a good feel for her (yes, even though you had to miss a good chunk of the game)?
Yes. I found a winner. Whether the wife agrees that she is the one is subject to question. Most things that I do lately have been either untimely, inadequate, or inappropriate. I'm wrong an awful lot.... And I don't care about missing the game. My time was well spent.
Originally Posted By: SallyM
as for your wife's response...well, who knows, really. how did she say she didn't believe you? I can see that 2 different ways...the first way is the straight out, I don't believe its a therapist on the phone. the other way is simply that she doesn't believe you actually have the nerve to think therapy is going to change anything.
She thought it was a girlfriend. This is what has me scratching my head. You would think that she would be happy. She's been wanting me to reach the point of "acceptance." Why isn't she rejoicing that I have arrived?
