The particular point I am making about the puppy dog is that it is important for a man to allow himself to be vulnerable (manifest as strong puppy)in a relationship because it shows that he trusts a woman to be kind.
I'm laughing so hard I can barely type, once I can breath, I will go read the rest of this thread. Thats the second time this place made me laugh so hard I dropped my 'puter.
LMAO.
I only wish I could show you Mojo, the txts and chats, and emails I get from women testing out how far they can push the -act super *shi^^y* to see what he will do- behavior. As a general rule, the more seeking validation they are the shi^^ty the behavior. X proved that to the nth degree. Heck I proved that same dynamic after she invalidated our M with the A. I still haven't gotten past the loss of control I showed on her BDay. Who was that angry nutjob. I don't know why, but I cant seem to get past the fact, its not my job to teach a grownup how to act respectful. If I chose to, I could easily get away with extremes of gross disrespect -- just as a general rule. Maybe Ill post a collage of them together some time. Just so you can sit there with your mouth open, and shake your head in disbelief at the venom and virulence over nothing, just to try and get a reaction.
it shows that he trusts a woman to be kind.LMAO. Yeah I trust them. Because I walk softly and carry a big stick. LMAO.
The only reason a man should show puppy dog in a R, is to show he can and will take it away, when she tries to kick the puppy. (and she will. guaranteed.) She only wants to see it to test that he will not let her hurt it. Deida explains this much better. I don't have to show the puppy, cause I already know what they will do with it, and I don't feel compelled to test and find out. I liked your story. It showed a man in emotional control and a supportive woman.
You have a well developed cow for various reasons. That is why you don't have as much of a problem being kind. Thats pretty damn rare though. ok back to reading
