Anned, he called and wanted to work things out. I wouldn't give in. He told me that he won't call any more and will come get his stuff in the spring (there is no way he can haul his heavy stuff out of here in the winter, we don't even plow the driveway it's so bad).He said he'll wait for my call to tell him what is next. I can't go from one day good-bye to the I love you to I'm angry to let's work things out and all over again within in a couple of days. When I asked about work he told me that he would try for social security again before he would ever apply for another job. That sums it up for me, he wants the easy way, things handed to him.