Thinking over what you have said I do think W has quite a problem with being able to work things out. She doesn't mind trying to figure things out with D17 or S15 but when it comes to PS, that's dealing with things on a peer to peer level, which I think W has a real problem with. (not just in M)

I have been thinking about being able to have it so that D is taken off the table. It' hard to be pro-active when things are sitting on " the edge of the table, waiting to fall off". I haven't seen W in the real low and agitated funk that usually brought on the D word lately. Why? How? Don't really know. However W seems to be expressing herself more in non R interaction.

I was really sad to hear about that woman (in SLC) that got shot by her stbxh right in front of her church. There were some interesting comments/opinions said in the online version of the paper. Both sides of the coin and how thin the line is. Kind of scary.

Thanks WCW for finding my new thread. It looks like you need to start a new one too.