Well what can I say but honesty is the best policy and so much for my 30 days no action. I'm still on my 30 day assessment for me, but no longer this M. It is over.
All I asked is why she seemed surprised to hear that I wanted to spend time with her. The R talk came from there. Well she is effing another guy, so I've had it. I was very calm, she asked me to hold off on the D, and let her think. I said no, and that I was done. I'm moving on.
No crying or upset on my part, she was in tears here and there. She tried to take a jab at the end with some hurtful words, and I stopped her and said you no longer have the right to hurt me. You made your bed and now you have to lay in it, I won't lie to our S when he is older, and I hope you find what your looking for.
AND I WALKED!!! I'm pretty proud of myself actually. I'm going to get the settlement wrapped up and I'm not even going to deliver it to her. She can get it in the mail.
New life, with new friends and people who respect each other, here I come.
