So I didn't pursue this any further. Tomorrow morning, I will ask her, "What was all that about last night? Didn't you get the email from your dad?"
I think you need to do this.
I read Rob's earlier post. It seems that not discussing the relationship is important in the LRT and in the early stages of the affair to help you detach and not put pressure on WAS. In your case, and perhaps mine, not discussing the relationship may be harmful. It's almost like we are being seen as aloof or in denial. It confirms their image us of as not wanting to deal with the lack of communication in the marriage.
