Chin up. I totally agree with you in that if you are married you should hold off on dating or at least living it up like you are single, but I guess if any of our mates thought that we would not be on this board. I myself have been very leary about dating, hell I don't even want to have male friends over because it seems disrespectful considering my H is still paying all the bills. According to my good friend if you are seperated then that all bets are off and you should be able to do what you want. Here is what I think- just cuz your wife is compromising morals and ethics does not mean you have to. Let her date and live like she is single. Sucks and I know it will be hard to do, but saying anything to her will just be dissapointing. Does not look llke she is ready to change. Your wife is still pretty young. Give her some space and GAL for yourself. I would not push the D thing for now. Can you work another job where you don'thave to see her? I think going dark now would be your best option. Is there anyway you can avoid seeing her at work?
