lwb,

I'm new to this community and have only been posting since New Year's Day (part of my resolution to change), but I have to say your support and advice is very appreciated. You seem to be in a good place. For all those who are "stuck", it would appear the "lwb System" calls for helping others, getting independent, and spicing things up with a dash of welcome selfishness.

Thanks for being a great person, and I'm sure your husband will wake up and realise this at some stage (I wish I could say he'll wake up tomorrow , and life will be perfect again by the weekend).

Regards,
drz