I'm so sorry to hear that your marriage has reached this crisis point. You are acting fantastically given you have spent 17 years with this woman. Your ability to look forward with a positive attitude is a tribute to you, and your sons will grow up with a great role model.
I hate to see WASs destroying so many lives. One can feel pity for their madness, but its hard to watch so many innocent lives being turned upside down.
Stay true to yourself, and don't let anger and revenge be your guides.
