That's a great quote from ROOT, Mark. I noted it as well.

Been wondering myself how to use this advice, but it's no use -- no matter what I say or do, my W is going to take it the wrong way.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.