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Why does this bother her?


I have no idea.

When H talked and talked one night (I was just listening), he said "I know eventually you will meet someone and be happy, and that will kill me. It will hurt so much. I have no idea why...". I don't even think if she wanted to, she could put it into words why it upset her.....

Maybe don't bring it up at all tomorrow? Is there really a need? Does it really have anything to do with the kids/counseling? If anything, I would maybe bring up the email and just the email, asking her what she thought about the kids and counseling...