Confusion of a WAW (Thread 5)

[bhopeful]

I'm still not convinced that you should move in with her. I know that she says that it's alright, but she sounds like she's scared about it at the same time.

It sounds to me like she wants time and space to be able to figure herself out. You help her out with a lot of things and I think that you need to let her have some independence.

Also, you should try really hard to stick to your schedule with D. Stop offering to help her out by taking care of D all the time. If she really needs help with her then your W will ask you. Make yourself available when she needs it, but let her come to you. I think that you've been putting too much pressure on your W lately. It's time to back off a bit. Focus on yourself and addressing the issues that your W brought up. Show her that the changes you have made are permanent. This will take time so you need to be consistent.

Good luck. I know you can do it.

This is all just my opinion, so take it as you will.

Peace,
B