I don't believe all women are any particular way; it's that I don't trust my powers of discernment more than anything else. Dealing with the cleanup when I'm wrong isn't worth the benefit of what came before...so the cleanup is probably where I'll have to deal with my next round of SLBs.
I have serious empathy with this. Believe it or not, there is a male version of this. (nod) And I am in as much... wariness... as you are... just in different gender form.
