Well we just hung up from an ugly phone conversation and I pushed and pushed for info. about OW. I accused him of protecting her since he refuses to give me her name. I also told him that if he wants our marriage over that bad that I have proof for opportunity of adultery since I have all these cell/text records, he won't share her name, and stays places other than his parents and won't tell me where which in the state of MD is enough to be granted a divorce immediately. I also explained that she will be dragged into the divorce hearing as the OW whether she really is or not since all the records I have indicate opportunity and he got really upset by that. We also talked about the well being of the kids and how poorly they are handling this but he swears he is happier away although it kills him to not be with his kids but on the weekends. I accused him of shutting me out and not communicating with me that he was unhappy and had he taken half the time to talk to me as has spent texting with her that maybe we would be happilly married and together instead of apart. Anyway the ugly side of me came out and now I regret it but I think I am heading into that ANGER stage. I am past the shock and the crying all day and now angry all the time that he could be so selfish and be so willing to hurt the woman he loved at least he did love me once and his kids and claim he is sorry for doing it but that he will not come back for the sake of anyone because he has done what he had to do to make himself happy for once. I even suggested MLC and/or depression and he scoffed at it all saying no shrink can give him pills that will make him suddenly be happy and want to be husband and daddy again to the point that he will come home. I see all these LBS on here that went through these things and are still months and even years later waiting for their MLC'er/WAS to come back and they haven't. I mean when do you finally say enough is enough and throw in the towel???
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
