Questions for DBing Men

[mrarow]

No expert here just devoted Dad and Husband wanting to save marriage. Your question #1 I am still tiring to find that happy medium but have not got there yet. Feel free to read my threads and see what I mean.
#2 I hear your supposed to believe 50% of what you see and less than that of what you hear!
#3 I do not lie to my wife anymore at all about anything. Its wrong. I am tiring not to be suspicious and not snoop anymore at all. it is a cheezeless tunnel!
#4 I do not know if there is a time when I will give up on wanting a future with my Wife anymore. I have not reached that point yet and don't see it in the distant future. I feel if I don't give up I can't lose right? I am tiring to come to grips with the fact that if she goes with the OM and leaves the house I will have to rethink my position but may very well still wait till that self destructs which it most likely will with all the baggage and heartbreak it carries with it. Time is my friend and I will wait and see what the future will have to offer.

I hope this helps some but its just my opinion for what that's worth. I am no expert as my thread will show. My situation is I am just getting a grip on the Rollorcoaster ride to Get a life in all of this.