OK Amy I have to finally ask you this because I really want to understand you better. On many occasions you've posted about how you had to leave after you and your husband had extremely positive interactions. This usually was at what appears a time when you both were greatly enjoying each other's company. Maybe like the tractor ride recently?
So why is it each of these times you had to leave? At what point do you as Frank so wonderfully put it, show love?
Sorry I've danced around this in posts to you before but never just called you out. Why can't you let one of these times move ahead a little further with a little love? I'm not saying hop in the bed together but allow affection between you. Maybe one of you sleeps on the sofa that night or something. But at some point if you two, and this goes for all of us, have to just let love in and take the next big step in showing love.
Yes I know you want to be strong, you want to not look like you are weak and needy but let's face it deep down every one of us, even in solid loving and strong relationships is a bit needy and vulnerable.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
