In Support of Strong Puppy

[Burgbud]

(Corri) Oh PUHLEEZE. Women are inherently dishonest. Duh.

Heh. Not so much.


(Mojo) So what you are saying is that a woman who says she doesn't want a LTR is inherently dishonest, or at least delusional, because she will want one once she gets involved with a man?

Much closer. Let's say the guy is a relationship-type guy. Perhaps he vibes that way whether he wants to or not, I don't know. But he knows he's not currently in a position to be in a relationship, so that's what he tells girl. Girl says she's not interested in or not in a place to be in a relationship. So far, so good. Guy brings the strong St. Bernard, strong wolf and extra large monkey. Let's say he even brings some puppy of varying strengths, because that's what life brings him and he was a little ignorant. Yet he's not placating, doesn't ask girl how many guys she's been with, doesn't follow up when girl leaves mysterious bread crumbs out for him to follow ("Saturday? There's no way I'll be back in time on Saturday."), etc.

While SSM forum women wouldn't bat an eye at the above, it's apparently relationship catnip for normal women who were previously uninterested in relationships.


(Corri) I suspect... given my... uhm... mood... if I crooked a finger in your direction in the gym... it wouldn't really matter about looks or sweat... or trust... you'd vibe me... lioness, with a very cute monkey on her back that wants to play with the soap and the conditioner... and you wouldn't so mind my bunny/librarian who'd insist on a rubber... as long as I got it on you in some playful monkey manner... and then my lioness could have at you, with your blessing.

Well, you were in that mood...did you crook your finger in anybody's direction? I suspect the woman you describe, assuming she doesn't have a frighteningly dysfunctional bunny, is much like the "male-affectionate, easy to get along with, non-political agenda lesbian" described by the genius of Kevin Smith via Jason Lee's character in Chasing Amy. (video clip is PG-13 for Strong Language) Of course that character turned out to be a) wrong, and b) bi-curious, so I point that clip out for entertainment purposes only.

If I'm mistaken in my analogy, I'm either the wrong guy or I've been going to the wrong gyms.