Monkeybug the info I am getting from everyone on this board is leave OW alone because H will blame you if it falls apart and he can always find another. That is what happened to me. I called first OW, I *67 before dialing and it hides your number. Needless to say she told me plenty of details that I did not need to know,that hurt. She said H told her we were separated for over a year, that was a lie we only were separated 1 month and he was still sleeping with both of us. She ended it with him but he already has another and still talks to #1 too. So if you can hold back. I know it is hard because I so badly want to call OW#2. I know she knows he is married because I went over his house when she was there but to what extent she knows I don't know and it bothers me. But he will just hate me more than he does right now and push him further away.
Me 36 H 35 S 13 & 10 M 15 yrs- 2gether 17yr Bombs 7/06, 6/07 ILYBNILWY 7/07 OW 7/07 Left 9/07
