What if... what if you took a deep breath and approached him gently and said that perhaps the two of you could agree to make the best of this situation, and you gave him a little smile, and waited for a response? Do you think he acts like he does because he expects that is how you view him and feel about him? Not saying you shouldn't!! He's earned it. But would it be totally out of the question to just try this? It doesn't sound like you have anything to lose, Sun. I'm just trying to think of anything that might help.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
