What could you do that might shake him up a bit? I mean, right now does he think he would always have you to fall back on if things didn't work out with Little Miss Insecurity? What if he thought you were out there dating and having a great time without him (not implying that you SHOULD date, but let him wonder about it?). Are you doing anything new and exciting that might make him think "gee, I wish I was doing that with her"? (I'm thinking about Althea and her scuba diving here \:\) )

Ellie