Thanks; I am reluctant to ask because I am afraid of putting him on the spot (gosh that sounds stupid). I guess I feel like if we talk about the "white elephant" it will become more of a reality and he will choose her. Like, since we are talking about it, that makes it okay; will take the pressure off him so he can decide to stay with her. I think he pretends she is not in the picture. Maybe he's afraid if it all comes out in the open I'll turn the kids against him. Who knows?
Thanks, and thanks Jack and K-R. Jack, your reply was the shot-in-the-arm I needed. K-R, I'll call you on my way home from work.
