Okay, but even if that is granted, how does that make the one who wants a LTR more honest than the one who doesn't? Also, why would you worry about the dishonesty about somebody who doesn't want a commitment? To me that's like worrying about the dishonesty of someone who doesn't want to sell you a car.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
You really don't know what he meant? You were really talking to people using my animal analogies? Did I tell you guys that my baby sister's new British GF told her whole family in London about it over Xmas. I was thinking maybe one of them would tell a friend who would tell a friend who knew Hap and then it would be so cool almost like I invented a word!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
No. I am like... the dumb person out on a joke... please dish.
As for the animal thing... I think we could actually write a book, you and me. You talking... me writing... "No, Mojo... here you have to expound... get clinical... " then I take Mojo's analogy and translate to english... and I ask... is this right..."no... Corri, you don't get it... " Corri... "so explain... DUH..."
And we work our way to a bestseller that outlives Mama Gena...
Why wouldn't you trust the woman who is in the same sich as you?
For the same reason I don't trust men, given the same sitch... and since this seems to be the 'singles' thread, I'll dish.
For example. I have gone out with a good friend of mine and her bf (and her bf has pegged me... right now... and I so like him for it)... my gf wants to get me laid... her bf says... hey so-and-so, that won't work for corri... no one in this bar will work for Corri... no one. Not unless she goes and just picks out someone... and he will have to resist the urge to flop on his back... LOL"
which I was kinda insulted by... and told him as much. To which he looks at me and says... "get over yourself."
Which then I give him the dumb eyed bunny stare.
Which to me he says... "Nope, aint gonna work."
ME: I'm sure I don't know what you are talking about."
Him: Well... no, you don't and that's your problem.
ME: I think I need to take my bunny and my monkey and go home.
Him: "Okay. But your bunny and your monkey aren't your problem."
[quote]Women being inherently dishonest: Okay, but even if that is granted, how does that make the one who wants a LTR more honest than the one who doesn't? "
Well. Funny you should mention that.
I guess it's like this. I have met all kinds of lovely lad who are straight up... "i'm not looking for an LTR."
K. That is the woman equivalent to saying..."I'm not having sex with you."
See?
So then, everyone plays around with everyone. I'm not doing this, and your not doing that.
Luvly.
But our brain soaked minds... they say something dif.
A woman's mind get's brain soaked way before a man's.
I am THINKING... that my friend's bf says to me... what he does... precisely because... give the scenario, which I don't buy into... I CAN utterly and completely walk away.
And a man likes to keep his options open. I piss all over that.
No. I am like... the dumb person out on a joke... please dish.
Maybe I'm misinterpreting but I think he was saying the same thing I told you. You are so strong lioness the guy you pick is naturally going to flop on his back to submissive monkey unless he is REALLY wolf but if he does that you will eventually find him unattractive so he needs to resist that urge. Basically he was calling you a maneater but like SG indicated he quite possibly likes that. You can hang with Sharon Stone and Angelina Jolie.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
